Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Play Well With Others

Introduction:

How to Play Well With Others (James 4:1-12):

1. Stop being so Self-centered . (Jas 4:1-3)
2. Get Right with God. (Jas 4:4-10)

   4 Things I Must Do to Humble Myself:

   1. I must Submit to God. (Jas 4:7a-8a)
   2. I must Repent from my sin. (Jas 4:8b)
   3. I must Mourn over my sinfulness. (Jas 4:9)
   4. I must receive God's Grace . (Jas 4:10)
3. Stop Slandering . (Jas 4:11-12)

   3 Things You Also Say When You Slander:

   1. "I Hate that person." (Jas 4:11a)
   2. "God's word means Nothing to me." (Jas 4:11bc)

      Galatians 5:14 - For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself."

   3. "I should be God ." (Jas 4:12)

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Small Group Discussion
Read James 4:1-12

1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?
   

2. Why do you think people would rather fight for what they want than ask God for it (Jas 4:2)?
   

3. In Jas 4:3, James says when we ask God for something with selfish motives, He will not answer. How can you tell if what you are asking for comes from a selfish motive or a God-glorifying motive? If you realize you are being selfish in what you are asking for, what should you do? How does this change how you pray?
   

4. What does it mean to “humble yourself”? How do you know when you have done that? In what area of “humbling yourself” do you find the most difficult? Why? See Jas 4:7-10.
   

5. Why does James talk about slander here? How is slander destructive? What should you do if someone is slandering someone else to you?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Be Wise

Introduction:

James 1:5 - If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

How to be Wise (James 3:13-18)

1. Understand what wisdom is. (Jas 3:13)
2. Know the difference between Me-first wisdom and Godly wisdom. (Jas 3:14-18)

   Three questions to ask yourself that will determine what kind of wisdom you live by:

   1. Where does my wisdom come from?
   2. Who is my wisdom meant to benefit?
   3. What is my wisdom producing?
3. Apply liberally.

   Proverbs 15:1 - A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

   1 Corinthians 1:30 - ...you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God...

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Small Group Discussion
Read James 3:13-18

1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?
   

2. How can you tell where your wisdom comes from - whether it’s demonic (Jas 3:15) or from above (Jas 3:17)?
   

3. In what area do you need God’s wisdom right now? How does this passage encourage you in both what to do and what NOT to do?
   

4. Have you ever held non-Christians to Biblical standards? (For example: telling your non-Christian coworker he shouldn’t swear because of what the Bible says about our speech.) Why doesn’t that work? How should you address them instead?

Breakout
Pray for one another to grow in godly wisdom.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Watch Your Mouth

Introduction:

James 1:26 - If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless.

How to Watch Your Mouth (James 3:1-12)

1. Recognize its Controlling Influence . (Jas 3:1-5a)
2. Refuse to underestimate its Destructive Power . (Jas 3:5b-9)
   1. It can spread Corruption Easily and Quickly . (Jas 3:5b-6)
   2. It can be a Weapon in the Hands of Satan . (Jas 3:6b)

      John 8:44 - "He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies."

   3. It is impossible to Fully Tame . (Jas 3:7-8)
3. Resolve to only use it for Blessing . (Jas 3:9-12)

   Matthew 12:33-34 - "Either make the tree good and its fruit good, or make the tree bad and its fruit bad, for the tree is known by its fruit. You brood of vipers! How can you speak good when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks."

   Ephesians 4:29 - Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

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Small Group Discussion
Read James 3:1-12

1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?
   

2. Why do our words carry so much weight for good or for bad? Why is underestimating the power of our words detrimental and destructive?
   

3. What is your biggest struggle/stumbling block with your speech? What is the heart issue behind that speech issue?
   

4. How can you resolve to use your mouth for blessing this upcoming week? Who is God calling you to bless in particular?

Breakout
Pray for one another and that you would resolve to use your mouth for blessing and not cursing.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Prove You Have Faith

Introduction:

Matthew 7:21 - Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.

Romans 2:6-8 - He will render to each one according to his works: to those who by patience in well-doing seek for glory and honor and immortality, he will give eternal life; but for those who are self-seeking and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, there will be wrath and fury.

How to Prove You Have Faith (James 2:14-26)

1. A faith that doesn't Move you to Serve = dead faith. (Jas 2:15-17)
2. A faith that is just about Agreeing to Doctrine = dead faith. (Jas 2:18-19)

   John 3:2 - This man (Nicodemus) came to Jesus by night and said to him, "Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God, for no one can do these signs that you do unless God is with him."

3. A faith that Makes your Choices = living faith. (Jas 1:20-26)

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Small Group Discussion
Read James 2:14-26

1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?
   

2. What exactly is James talking about when he speaks of “works”? Give specific examples of the kinds of works that flow from authentic faith.
   

3. Suppose you see a church member who doesn’t seem to show any works resulting from saving faith. How do you know if they are just an immature believer or not really a believer at all?
   

4. How would you approach such a person (from question 2) if they were in your Small Group?
   

5. James says Abraham was justified by works (James 2:21), but Paul says in Romans 4:2 “For if Abraham was justified by works, he has something to boast about, but not before God.” Do James and Paul contradict each other? How would you explain this?

Breakout
Pray for one another!

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Love People Like God

Introduction:

Deuteronomy 10:17 - For the LORD your God is God of gods and Lord of lords, the great, the mighty, and the awesome God, who is not partial and takes no bribe.

Acts 10:34-35 - So Peter opened his mouth and said: "Truly I understand that God shows no partiality, but in every nation anyone who fears him and does what is right is acceptable to him."

How to Love People Like God Loves People (James 2:1-13)

1. Don't Deny your faith: Christ followers are not Partial. (Jas 2:1-4)
2. Don't Disregard reality: rich /= Great, and poor /= Bad. (Jas 2:5-7)

   Psalm 68:10 - ...in your goodness, O God, you provided for the needy.

   Psalm 41:1 - Blessed is the one who considers the poor!

   Proverbs 17:5 - Whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker...

3. Don't Disobey God's Word: Partiality is a serious Sin. (Jas 1:22-27)

   Matthew 5:7 - Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.

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Small Group Discussion
Read James 2:1-13

1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?
   

2. What are ways that you tend to label people that you need to refrain from?
   

3. Why is partiality such a serious sin? How did James show us that it is (see James 2:9-11)?
   

4. Is James condemning all rich people (James 2:6-7)? Why or why not?
   

5. If we are saved by grace, and works do not save anyone, why are works the basis for judgment (James 2:12)? See also Revelation 22:12.

Breakout
Pray for one another, and HBC, to never show partiality.