How Can I Become More Discerning?

This past Sunday, I taught on Titus 1:10-16 which focuses upon how the church should deal with false teaching when it arises. False teaching has been around for thousands of years and the leaders of the early church had to deal with it on almost a daily basis. Heresies surrounding the Trinity, the natures of Christ, the details of salvation, and the makeup of the Bible popped up constantly. This trend hasn’t slowed down throughout church history because our enemy hates when the truth is proclaimed and he wants to deceive as many as possible. Satan loves to twist the truth and come up with his own hellish concoctions that spiritually poison those who consume them. In 2022, Satan is hard at work and he’s up to the same game that he has been playing since the beginning of time. Sadly, many in the Evangelical world are easily tricked and they buy into the lies of this world hook, line, and sinker. Discernment isn’t as common as it should be. As followers of Christ, we need to resist this trend and grow in our discernment as much as we possibly can on a daily basis. How can you become more discerning? Below are three quick yet vital tips.

  1. By Becoming a Student of God’s Word - This may sound extremely obvious but we often need reminded about the basics of the faith. How often do you skip reading the Bible because you’re “too busy” or “too tired”? How often do you neglect the Word to consume the things of the world? How often do you skim through a chapter or a passage in order to check “Bible Reading” off your daily checklist? Bible study isn’t something to rush through but to savor and enjoy. Don’t just read a passage but meditate upon it and think about how it applies to your life. Years ago, my dad gave me a Bible study tip that I’ll never forget, “When you read a verse, ask yourself: what does this teach me about who God is and what does this teach me about who I need to be?” Don’t have a pristine Bible but a copy that is highlighted, underlined, and filled with your notes. Commit verses to memory and don’t tell me you aren’t good at memorizing! We remember and memorize what we care about. One of my favorite preachers of all time, Charles Spurgeon, once said something about John Bunyan, who wrote Pilgrim’s Progress, that has really stuck with me over the years: “Prick him anywhere—his blood is Bibline, the very essence of the Bible flows from him. He cannot speak without quoting a text, for his very soul is full of the Word of God.” Let us be a people whose spiritual veins are full of the Word of God.

  2. By Being Careful of What You Consume - There is so much garbage on movie screens, TV, and social media. Social media influencers, celebrities, and news anchors are trying to tell you what to think, say, and do. These people and programs affect you way more than you think they do. David makes a promise in Psalm 101:3 that should act as a filter for what we consume: “I will not set before my eyes anything that is worthless.” Before you watch a movie or TV show, ask yourself questions like, “Is this a worthless waste of time? Will this hurt or harm my walk with the Lord? Will this cause me to stumble in someway?” Before you tune into a certain news station, ask yourself, “Will this cause me to trust in the Lord more or will this cause me to panic and fall into hysteria as many people across this country are right now?”

  3. By Being Held Accountable By Others - Develop a trusted circle of advisors that can speak the truth into your life and help you apply God’s Word to every situation that pops up. Solomon speaks to the importance of listening and learning in Proverbs 1:5,“Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtains guidance.” Who are you turning to for wisdom and guidance? Are you turning to godly men and women who want what is best for you and lead lives of holiness? Are you trusting and learning from the wrong crowd or the right people? You are only as wise as the people that you respect and listen to.

Cutting Room Floor: Ecclesiastes 12:9-14

Did you know that almost 4 million books were published last year alone? You may think, “How is that even possible?” With the advent of e-books and self-publishing, an avalanche of fictional and non-fictional options are dumped upon us year in and year out. Many of these books are in the self-help category and promise results that they cannot possibly deliver. Lose 20 pounds by the end of the week without dieting or exercising. Become a multimillionaire in a few short months. And on and on and the false promises go. Millions and millions of these types of books are unwise, unhealthy, and unhelpful.

Sadly, a lot of books written by and marketed to Christians fall into the destructive column as well. Solomon speaks to this in Ecclesiastes 12:11-12, “The words of the wise are like goads, and like nails firmly fixed are the collected sayings; they are given by one Shepherd. My son, beware of anything beyond these. Of making many books there is no end, and much study is a weariness of the flesh.” Solomon isn’t saying that reading other books besides the Bible is wrong. He’s saying that many books are not worth reading and trying to keep up with the latest trends and philosophies is an exhausting waste of time. We should always be people of “The Book” but it’s a good thing to study other books that help you to better understand and apply God’s Word. Being a Christian reader will develop your discernment, sharpen your mind, and enrich your soul. But be very careful of what you choose to spend your time reading. Quick tip: if a “Christian” book has the author’s picture on the front cover, it’s probably not worth reading. I can think of very few exceptions to this rule. This picture on the front cover trend shows a desire to glorify the writer instead of the Lord. Don’t eat spiritual junk food that will hollow out your insides but instead, only consume the very best material. Don’t waste your time on authors that stray away from the wisdom of Scripture in order to make a quick buck or advance their own agenda. This word of advice also includes online articles and blog posts.

Maybe you’re newer to the faith or to reading Christian books and you don’t know where to start. Feel free to reach out to Pastor Jeff and me for recommendations. Below are a few of my personal favorites (in no particular order) that I think will benefit any brother or sister in Christ:

  1. The Holiness of God by R.C. Sproul

  2. Knowing God by J.I. Packer

  3. Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life by Donald Whitney

  4. Jesus on Every Page by David Murray

  5. Respectable Sins by Jerry Bridges

  6. The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis

  7. Heaven by Randy Alcorn

  8. Everyone’s a Theologian by R.C. Sproul

  9. The Prodigal God by Tim Keller

  10. The Hole in Our Holiness by Kevin DeYoung

Cutting Room Floor: Ecclesiastes 12:1-8

On Sunday (9/18), we saw Solomon's call in Ecclesiastes to live on purpose: be a good citizen, be generous, enjoy life! His charge ended with a picturesque description of getting old.

I was going to give a little explanation of these phrases / pictures during the sermon, but decided instead to share it here on the blog. Some of these seem pretty obvious, some maybe not as much!

1 Remember also your Creator in the days of your youth, before the evil days come and the years draw near of which you will say, “I have no pleasure in them”;

As we learned – this is the point. Seek the Lord while you are young. Don't wait until you are old and bitter – it may be too late then!

What follows is the list of the things that go with old age:

2 before the sun and the light and the moon and the stars are darkened and the clouds return after the rain,

This verse refers to mental faculties. Brain fog, being a little fuzzy upstairs.

3 in the day when the keepers of the house tremble, and the strong men are bent, and the grinders cease because they are few, and those who look through the windows are dimmed,

The keepers of the house = the arms. Weakening, trembling.

The strong men = the legs. Bent, stooped over.

The grinders… are few = your teeth falling out!

Those who look… dimmed = eyesight failing.

4 and the doors on the street are shut—when the sound of the grinding is low, and one rises up at the sound of a bird, and all the daughters of song are brought low—

Doors shut, grinding low = this refers to your hearing failing.

Rises up… sound of a bird = somehow our hearing is failing but we can't sleep. The slightest little noise can keep us up!

Daughters of song = I believe this is speaking of the spark. That zest for life that we have as kids that we lose as we get older.

5 they are afraid also of what is high, and terrors are in the way; the almond tree blossoms, the grasshopper drags itself along, and desire fails, because man is going to his eternal fhome, and the mourners go about the streets—

Afraid of what is high = somehow age makes us less brave. I remember jumping off bridges as a kid. Now I'm not as fond of heights. I don't even like being this tall.

Terrors in the way = again, afraid. More and more – afraid to leave the house. What if there's an accident? What if someone comes after me to rob me? What if the weather is bad?

Almond tree blossoms = hair turning white.

Grasshopper drags itself = you will understand this when you are 40. Trying to get out of bed, everything hurts, you just pull your broke down body along.

Desire fails = many people are glad that, as last thing on the list, it's likely Solomon is saying: this is the last thing to go.

6 before the silver cord is snapped, or the golden bowl is broken, or the pitcher is shattered at the fountain, or the wheel broken at the cistern,

These are all parts of the human physiology, that, if suddenly injured, can lead to instant death:

Silver cord = spinal cord.

Golden bowl = skull.

Pitcher = heart.

Wheel = blood circulation (bleeding out).

7 and the dust returns to the earth as it was, and the spirit returns to God who gave it.

8 Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher; all is vanity.

Beautiful and sad. Solomon's point is clear: you are getting old, wearing out, heading to your death. Seek the Lord before all of this!

Pastor Jeff

-I'm older than I've ever been


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